Sorry to hear about your meeting NQ I would've reacted the same as you as no matter how much you prepare yourself, it's still comes as a shock Enjoy the wine
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I would've reacted the same as you as no matter how much you prepare yourself, it's still comes as a shock 
Enjoy the wine 