Bug, thanks for the update. I meant R – relationship, and you answered the question. My sitch has some similarities, this is why I asked. It’s been 14 months since BD. We only communicate about business, mostly via e-mail. There were times when I didn’t hear from him for a couple of months. Last time when I saw him was in May, 3.5 months ago. There was no OW. He tried to start a flick, but it didn’t go anywhere. I’m not sure if there is any OW now.

I’m getting to the point when I am happy and OK too, and I’m also starting to have a different attitude about H.

I’m happy that you are in a good place and consider this potential “new” relationship with you H fun. I hope I will be where you are one day.

One more question. Did he ever brought a D subject?

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state