@NTX_Dad: There is divorce and restraining order filed. We also did a dissolution on our own prepared where she would take everything in her name, so not as worried about. I could sign that right now, and walk away without a cent.
And actually W described her OWN decisions/actions as bad, it wasn't me; and she is changing them on her own. She only hangs out with one of the new group of friends now, and they are a pretty stable family. She also said as far the kissing incident, that she blocked the guy on Facebook (he tried to friend request her), blocked his number, and told their common friends she never wanted to see him again. She said she didn't even want to talk to him on the phone she was so disgusted and embarrassed. The disgust was pretty obvious on her face, it almost made me laugh.
Now, of course, that could all be complete lies. She WAS dumping on friends a bit, up until about a week ago, but now she's going to be completely on her own, so she'll have the kids 24/7. But she's considering coming back on her OWN - I actually agreed to the divorce/dissolution, and I already told her I wouldn't be helping her with anything financially; even if we decided to reconcile.
What it really appears to me is that it was someone that had a bit of a midlife crisis. She ditched her marriage, went to stay with her mom, starting hanging out with 25-year-olds down there, got three tattoos, started going out drinking, started with a whole new group of friends. That lasted about 6-8 weeks, and I think she figured out "Hey, this just drains the little money I have, and it [censored]."
Again, I dunno. I don't really see the opportunity for cake-eating which makes me believe it a bit more.
