let's start at the end, shall we?

[Positivespin]

Good luck..........This is a good step.

At this point if she confesses to you are you able to forgive???

I ask ONLY because I want you rehearsed in every way poss. Shock, for me, causes me to do stupid things so I try to think a few steps ahead........a bit of pain now is alot better then messing up a potential R opportunity.

I felt the same weak as you do.....just keep moving foward with a PMA and know your tired before you respond or act