hi Magic,

Yes she does. And she knows I won't wait forever, that I do have a limit, though I'm not sure "when" that is.

BUT...BIG HUGE "BUT" HERE, it came after 4-5 years of mlc, it came AFTER the 3rd BD in April. It came after our anniversary day/date discussion of divorcing.

My thread of this time is here:

#7 Here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2339824&page=1

and here:

#8 Here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2353512&page=1

Those ^^^ are very important for context and perspective, Magic! There is A LOT behind this stance and how it all got to be where it is and why she knows....Please read the whole picture, please.

Imo, you are still in the beginning stages, the time to just work on YOU. Leave the R stuff be...put it on the WAY back burner on the stove out in the garage, not the kitchen even. smile

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm