I wouldn't advise the r talks or pushing the decision on the medical school, I would let it come at it's own pace. The line around here of "embracing time as your friend" I think is really a good one. I was just unsure, that is why I asked.

I am a big fan of your crushed grapes. Sitting with a bottle of cab and talking is one of our most important communication times!

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"