Well I'm making plans to go party Saturday night with some gal friends. Some single dudes will be there too to hang out with us ! I'm excited!!!

Called h left voicemail to let him know when the kids' soccer game is on Saturday and that he can have the kids for the weekend.

This is a 180 cause I would not let him have the kids outside of court order before.

Let h know I would prefer the boys stay with him cause I will be gone this weekend (did not specify where, when or what) but that h was to call Friday night to confirm boys staying with him. I told h he could talk to oldest s (I will not be home will be partying but did not tell h this) about their plans for Saturday.

I'm going to go about being nice to h, let him have the kids on weekends when they want to go (my youngest does not want to go to his dad's).

Also what do y'all think about h taking kids to Florida for the entire spring break? Our original plan was for all of us to go...h has not called to break those plans but neither has he confirmed. After his convo with me regarding him filing for d, I figured Florida may be out. So my question is this...will I be a doormat if I just let him take the boys without me? I feel as though I should say no cause I'd like to have some time with boys...I did take off from work!

Advice please.

Cindy