It may boil down to Cunningham's set a deadline for when things need to have gotten better. If it isn't met, well, it's over.
IMHO! When you, in the years to come, look back towards this period in your life it is my belief that you from there on will be happier knowing you did ALL you could to the BEST of your abilities – no matter how this ends. As I see your sit and your actions and doings you are about to start DBing (again) and setting a deadline know seems a little premature to me! Do you truly see the ALL and BEST as kept going for a sufficient time.
So for now I would go with MrBond and extract all the other goodies from Cunningham and then leave the thoughts of deadlines be.
You seem to be on the right track but it is a long one so keep going!! Do the work on you first, then apply patience and then consider setting a deadline!
All the best!
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
