Probably wasn't the best idea -poking the bear - but it would seem I no longer have anything to lose...
Got a not left as he had waited almost an hour for me, and couldn't get in the house.
I didn't respond to this visit request, as far as i'm concerned he turned up on the chance I would be here - and I wasn't. the way he's carrying on you'd think i'd been off the radar for months not 48 hours.
Did he consider I might be ill? Have other issues/problems I needed to be dealing with? Obviously not.