Sorry but to me it sounds like she's not sure what she wants but is leaning towards splitting, but it just stringing you along so she has a safety net.

That's exactly what my W did to me two years ago.

Looking back, honestly being separated for 12 months was the best thing we could have done. It really taught us a lot about ourselves and each other. Unfortunately maintaining two homes is quite expensive.


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012