2nd...I am so guilty of projecting what things mean to my boyfriend (not married but just recently separated joint home) from our texts. He is not me, so it would be different interpretations whether it be positive or negative. Trying to stop doing it. Even when he texts me saying I love and miss you, I interpret it as "I love and miss you but not enough to want you.". Someone else might be ecstatic to hear they are still loved and missed. Right?
