MP, I hear you. my sit is the same. My h is adamant about D. One thing I would do when h was still in the home...when he came in, I'd leave and go for a walk. or, I'd say I had plans with friends and just go to the coffee shop with a book. H says he is not coming back. I know exactly how you are feeling. I want to stop crying. I want to not dwell on it. I am losing weight, losing my hair, my sleep is jacked up. But, I will say. I am taking classes. I am doing for me. I have been accommodating and nice to h. I am trying to not be smart aleck about the sit and give him his space. Does it make it easier...no. I put the words compassion and dignity on my fridge. I have to constantly remind myself because sometimes the urge to lash out is so strong. so know that you are not alone. This board gives great advice and reminders
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
