Is there's anything left of everything we had...

[chl0901]

There you go - today you may eat chocolates and have a glass (or two!) of wine (and whine), and then feel better and positive tomorrow and on!

[Not Quitting]

There you go - today you may eat chocolates and have a glass (or two!) of wine (and whine), and then feel better and positive tomorrow and on!

Sounds like a plan. At least after I've taken S13 out to the library and to the store to pick up a few extra school supplies he found out today that he needed.

Not sure I have any chocolate in the house but I'm sure I can pick some up while at the store with S13. I definitely have plenty of wine - my dad makes his own and has 2 or 3 dozen bottles in the wine rack in the laundry room.

I'm starting to feel a bit better already, just reading posts on here has that affect.

[chl0901]

Very cool that you dad makes his own wine - and a nice perk for you!

I know what you mean about feeling better reading other people's posts on here - it helps me a lot too when I'm feeling hopeless!

[TryingToDo180]

Sorry to hear about your meeting NQ I would've reacted the same as you as no matter how much you prepare yourself, it's still comes as a shock Enjoy the wine

[kelela]

NQ I'm sorry to hear about your meeting with H. I'm sending you a big hug from me (( )).

[Not Quitting]

NQ I'm sorry to hear about your meeting with H. I'm sending you a big hug from me (( )).

Thanks K, all hugs gratefully accepted.

[Not Quitting]

Sorry to hear about your meeting NQ I would've reacted the same as you as no matter how much you prepare yourself, it's still comes as a shock Enjoy the wine

Thanks TTD. Maybe if I hadn't been so prepared for it I'd have handled it better. I'd had the time to get myself worked up before the meeting.

Funny thing is H was rather chatty this morning - texting several times about nothing in particular. He hasn't been that way for a while. Not sure what to make of that.

Anyway I hear a bottle of wine calling my name LOL!

[TryingToDo180]

lol I've just had a glass of wine, I need it tonight after today's dramas!
Hope you're feeling better today

[MyNewStrength]

NQ. Just reading you sitch. You are doing much better than I am so I have a lot to learn. I just wish my H was not so stuck on just D. This situation we find ourselves in is one of the most difficult I have experienced.

Thank you for sharing. Raising my glass. Cheers!

[Not Quitting]

Hi MP, I still have a lot to learn as well. I'll try and pop by your thread later. It took a lot for me to open up on a forum of any sort but I wish I'd done it sooner than I did.

My H hasn't "thought that far ahead" in his words regarding D but the separation agreement was signed today. I haven't closed the door yet but I'm not making promises to anyone as to how long it will stay open. The man I'm married to right now (or should I say separated from) is not the same man I married in 1997. Once in a while I get a glimpse of that man so I know he's still in there but right now he's not able to get out.