I'm not quite at the point to give advice but sounds like your H likes to keep you on a tight leash right where he likes you. Mine is doing the same thing. One minute he is so unhappy and the next he is kissing me and telling me he loves me....very confusing and i feel your pain;) just wanted you to know i'm listening!

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14