She said that she loves me, but love isn't enough, and at this point, she's not sure what she wants from our marriage. I asked her if a relationship with a spouse wasn't about unconditional love, what is it? Money? Sex? Companionship? You can get those from a job, prostitute, and dog.
Dunno. I guess I wait three weeks.
OMG, I spewed coffee on my screen when I read that. Did you actually say those words to her?
A relationship with a spouse is about all those things and more. That's why it's so difficult.
If she's questioning whether she wants in the marriage, give her space to do that. It seems from that statement above you were speaking from an emotional place, your own hurt maybe?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
