We all want it our way but as we mature we figure out that's not doable and that other people have needs that may be different from our own. So we learn to negotiate and compromise. That's what people in loving, committed R do (hey, I'm just getting this part down myself).

Remember the drama triangle I mentioned before? You and your W sprint around that about 10 times in every conversation.

You've heard this many times from me and others: Someone has to be the first to stop.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss