Well once h finds out how expense it will be to get the ball rolling on the d...he's going to bite off more than he can chew. H thinks he can just resubmit our previous decree; I don't think he can do that but we'll see. Even if he does resubmit he'll have to wait the 60 day cooling off period. Then I can stall to make sure the decree is to my liking...just h did me this past year. Even if h doesn't want to play that game he can take me to court and let the judge split it. The judge may not like the way h has behaved the past year. I've kept a journal of all the good and bad that the judge can read.
I'm going to start saving money for the attorney fee now to get the ball going.
I was also thinking of submitting my taxes now as head of household without h's permission. Since we've been separated for one year and I can file separately and as head of household. I'd get about $2200 back which would help me pay the retainage on the attorney if need be.
I'm not scared...hurt somewhat by the things h said but not scared.
I want also to call h's buddy...the one who made the sell to h that I'm one selfish b***h. I want to bite his head off!
