MrB, I have read DR. I guess I am finding it hard to 180 and GAL because I am so concerned that he will proceed. In VA, it only takes one party to file.

It is really hard to go dark when he is living in the same house. I think I have to just begin to live as if he is not here. Go to work, get back to running (I have not done this since he said he wanted a D), and behave as if.

My goal today is not to cry. I will most likely come home, and be scarce in order to go dark as much as I can while he is living here.

So hard....:(


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Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years