"We also talked about her school job, where she is the only teacher with four subjects, and how these beat up her brain. She said how she felt about this (tired),:
At that point, you should have lightly massaged her neck to alleviate the stress. Try doing that the next time you're with her.
"She did nicely help carry out plates, but then went upstairs to work."
REally? She didn't help to clean? She's using you like the help.
"(I can imagine her remark "you take off to the States and leave the crappy work for me","
You still have the tendency to mindread out of fear what your W will do.
"She and I can cook the fancy dinner together next time, which sounds fun."
Try including your W in all this.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
