Time is on our side

[RosaLinda]

Well it's 3 am, so I'm awake. It's a good time to reflect and pray. Wish I wouldn't wake up at this time EVERY morning though.

RL "I'm letting my H go with love, and trusting God to let H experience what ever he needs to move on with his MLC journey. I actually think it will be a relief for him to be gone for a month, plus I have SO many fun things planned for myself! "

NLT "The above is a copy, paste and carry around with you post! Remember this while your wacky h is away spewing at someone else. She is the one that deserves the spew, not you. My h is spewing at his ow right now too. See, that can't control it ALL of the time. Your h is no exception. "

WHAT! MLCers continue to spew at their OW? On my last thread I was wondering whether MLCers wake up from their fog while with their OW, or if they ignore the OW while they are speaking, walk past them as if they do not see them, etc, like they do to us. 

Thanks for sharing this NLT ! My H is not a constant spewer, but feeling ill, irritated, tired, brings it on. And he feels ill, irritated and tired a lot lately.  The thought of the Russian being the one receiving those unjustified tongue lashings makes me grin from ear to ear. 

Thanks for your support, prayers, and whispers uRw! I will remember you telling me to be light, carefree and happy while the cuckoo flys around the room, thanks! One of my fun planned things is meeting you! Something to look forward to!

Thanks SweetRed! I bet you're right, my surgical experience will be loads better than H's! Did you know he plans to have a tooth pulled while he's there, and to pay the dentist with vodka!!?? Holy cow!

Ellie a handsome Brit might just fit the bill to wile away those lonely hours! Thanks for your good wishes for my surgery and that this trip will be H's wake up call.  

I shall be thoroughly spoiled over the next few days. My dear MIL brought me a refrigerator full of food so I would not have to cook. 

I'm still feeling "comfortably numb" although there's only 90 minutes to go until I tell H see ya, and set him free with love. I had anticipated being an emotional wreck.  uR, brain shutdown can be a wonderful thing!