I'm so sorry BK. I get that sense whenever I talk to S's counselor and she tells me the kids do not be in the middle of a war zone. I want to scream "this is not my doing! I didn't cause this!!! I'm not the one creating the war zone!"
But then I think they would be telling the H's the same thing. You know what the difference is? We care. We have a conscience. They don't. If they heard the words we heard, they wouldn't take that blame on themselves. They would blame us.
Hang in there BK. Raising kids is hard. Thank goodness they have you.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"