AS,

It is amazing the personal growth that happens to each of us here. And, I wouldn't trade where I am now for where I was a year ago for anything!

I have a personal friend who is also going through a very hard time right now, although he is not on this site he has very much been DBing for about the same timeline as you & I have.

I hope that anyone on here who experiences the full effect of what a M in crisis can do to you as a person will also "pay it forward." That is part of the glory of this site. We are all on similar journeys (as LBS's) but have different timelines with unique details on our journey. So, those who have already traveled ahead are in a good position to pass on their knowledge and insight to others. They will hear it and process it when they are ready.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.