She does work and the mortgage still comes out of hers. I mentioned to her that we were spending to much. Her response was the she thought that might happen. I told her we need to watch our spending. No response.
She's been extremely ill the last few days. She has a trip planned in another week for a few days. I suspect it's to meet someone. Maybe she frustrated it can't get here soon enough; who knows.
We've had two conversations were she said something like, "that's because you love me." Once because she asked how she looked and I said great, the other was her asking if I'd get her a drink at the high school football game. It strikes me that she's thinking she's not worthy, but I do it in a manner similar to a parent. Oh we'll, she knows where I stand.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
