I feel like in the week and a half since she told me she wants a D that I've made a lot of progress toward detaching, mostly by keeping busy. Today she texted me to say that our old dining room table that she took with her to sell and was going to split profits with me was damaged when her brother didn't put it inside and it got rained on.

All I replied was "send me pics of the damage please."

Then she texted me to tell me that she thought she might be able to fix it using an ironing trick she found on pinterest.

I didn't reply. Seemed like she gave a lot more information than I needed and why is she giving me updates? It actually threw me off somewhat to have her texting me as if we're friends.

I am going to continue not to talk to her other than minimal replies. When the D paperwork comes this week I am not going to discuss it with her if everything looks ok. I am just going to have my lawyer look at it, and if it checks out I am going to sign and mail it to her and go on my merry way.

T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old
7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile
7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile
8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers