Listen to the advice on this forum, It is the best you will get. The hardest thing that you have to do now is to follow it.
Read it, re-read it and re-read it again. It is so frighteningly logical and yet so easy to dismiss because you are not in a logical place right now - your emotional brain is in control which is not good when you're about to embark on such an important journey. A journey that we've all been on before you so we know the best way to get where you're wanting to go.
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11