Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

That makes a lot of sense UR! It's what I can control. It's gotten better, but it still rears its ugly head occasionally.
The last couple of days I have steered clear of bringing up my thoughts to her about this. It is not healthy. It has to be in the past, just like who I was needs to be in the past as well. This is a new marriage.
Magic! I wish that would work. Not at this moment unfortunately.
I didn't get a chance to bring this up in MC today because we focused on our cycle of communication. It went really well. Hopefully we make some progress from here. To sum it up. Wife said to me in counseling that she doesn't want to open up to me because its never a enough. I want to continue talking and get as much out of her as I can. I do this because she rarely opens up about her feelings so I keep pushing for more. Wife then says if I dropped stuff then maybe she would open up more, to which I said if I drop things then will you continue conversation at another time? She said she believes so.
We shall see, but it was definitely a breakthrough of us both understanding the communication problems