Yes, it may have been better to discuss with her how you will both co-exist in the same church. Co-operation and problem solving is not the same as "ignore the issue". It would be approaching the issue in an adult fashion...well, an ideal adult fashion anyway Demanding she leave the church isn't likely to get a favourable response. But, as Mr. Bond has said, the past is in the past. You must move forward. We all make choices, right or wrong, and we must live with the outcomes.
Demanding she leave the church isn't likely to get a favourable response. But, as Mr. Bond has said, the past is in the past. You must move forward. We all make choices, right or wrong, and we must live with the outcomes.