Well, I heard from the W. She was vague, but she is not in a good place in terms of her health. I'm deeply concerned about her. She made more WAS comments in her text, reiterating her desire for this to be done. I replied to her but have not heard back...
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Well, she said she lost her health insurance because her hours have been cut to part-time and then the usual WAS stuff: "nothing left in me to fight you, I have no animosity, I need you to move on with your life, I really need closure, It doesn't feel right for this to linger, there is nothing for us, can you help move this along smoothly.." She said she prays for me and mine daily (she wasn't the praying type before BD) and that she asked God to help her forgive me and she did...
My reply said that I was glad to hear to from her but that I was sorry things are so rough. I said this seems like important stuff and asked if we could talk face-to-face. (We haven't talked face-to-face since BD except for a few minutes at the courthouse.) No reply yet.
I really want to help her any way I can and I need her to know I've never had any animosity towards her. I'm trying to see if I can get her on my health insurance. It really hurts that as bad as things are for her, she still doesn't seem to want me or my help.
How has her relationship been with her family in the last few months? Is she withdrawing from everyone or just you?
MrCAS is right
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
Well, I would say she withdrew from me back on BD and has taken only the most gradual of steps on BD. AFAIK, she is still living with her parents. I have not had any contact with anyone except my FiL and that has been very minimal since February. I got the impression on my last call he did not want to talk to me anymore.
I'm not sure what her relationship is currently like. Initially, my FiL said things were good. She asked me not to discuss one of her favor requests (from right after she dropped the TRO) with her parents.
