Help! I'm so hopeless and devastated...

[peaceSJ]

Thanks, Trying. But I didn't find your previous post you mentioned.
No, I didn't do any detective work on him. I just accidently found out the places where he went. He lied to the kids about where to go and what to do during the trip and hid everything for the trip, and he also mentioned he still love his old girl friend and one day he might to to visit her. That's the place. Also he texted all the time with some person and didn't want me and our friends know.
I feel his mind is being away from me and our kids further and further. If I don't confront him, he will lie to kids more and more in the future.