There's a lot of work left to do in my own head and the pressure of Retrov this weekend is making me rethink everything. About Retrov, H has already given me the 'no guarantees of outcome, okay?' text, so the pressure is all my own.
I've been to RetroV, it is a great program but when one spouse is a full-blown WAS my opinion is that it is of limited benefit. My W was actually the one to sign us up, but here we are some 8 months later and W is finalizing the D papers as I type this. I'm not saying to give up hope, but I am saying you need to drop any expectations you have that it will save your M. Just go with an open mind and open heart and see where it takes you, that's all you can do.
