The conversation went south like it normally does because she thinks it should all be her way and gets angry when it isn't.
So, you think you're right and she's wrong then? How's that working out for you? There's a phrase that gets repeated around here sometimes, I think it's in DR as well- "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happily married?" T, I think you're the only one here that's convinced you're right. I've read your text exchanges with your W very closely, and I don't see you being right and your W being wrong, I see two people bickering at each other. It only takes one to break the cycle, and it ain't gonna be your W.