Hey AS, it is a good story and if awesome coparents is what it is, then so be it!

I am not sure she is done with you yet.....but I sense a shift in your place in this.

H came to pick up S17 today, move some things into city where S17 goes to school. S17 and I got box spring stuck in stairwell, but when H came none of us could figure out how we got it up there in the first place!!! So we just said "We will get a new one!"

I have a leak in the roof. H patched it but it didn't work and we got a LOT of rain. Which ended up in my bedroom. He saw it today and looked worried. Before I would have been "Nag, nag, fix now, call someone, blah blah, do this..."

All I did was laugh and say "always wanted one of those waterfall decorations...."

He smiled and I felt the dynamic shift. Thank you DB and Bug wink

H and S17 left with sandwiches and H said "See you tomorrow?" (I am in town for a class) and I said "Yes"

Okay...I really want to freak a bit about the leak!! LMAO!