Quote: He eventually tire himself out because YOU HAVEN'T DONE ANTHING WRONG..He really has to decide for himself what he's going to do, he knows that ball is in his court, so let it sit there until he picks it up..
Yep, it's up to him now. Let's see if he likes this PRESSURE of coming up with a decision that will not only effect him but 3 others (kids and me)! It's not a fun place to be...I didn't much like it. I'm sure he's going to be stewing now that he'll have to play bad guy if the d is what he wants. No more playing the victim.
I've been fighting so hard for this...everyone sees it! He has no cause to be running so hard...it's purely selfishness that keeps him there. The lure of parties, drinking binges, all night escapades with his single buddies...but this won't last long compared to the long lasting effects of d. And he will be responsible for getting us the d if that is what he chooses. ONce he makes the decision I doubt he'll waver just to prove that he's not like me...a person who is able to follow thru on their threat.
Quote: Hey, maybe you should give your old guy pal you were referring to the other day a call and say.."whats up?..
I might do that! He actually called me THursday to see how I was doing. But I hate to give him IDEAS when I'm not really available yet.
We'll see. I do know that I'll stay away from h. I'm so tired and worn out from carrying this d around. I need a major break from him!!!
