Mimi, even though your timeline is counseling from last year, your BD is only July. That is so so little time. I realize you are long distance. So, you begin living your life for you, which it seems, you are still in a huge holding/waiting pattern.

We all would rather be with our spouses, otherwise we wouldn't be here. But you can stand still or move forward. Big difference between moving forward and moving on.

I haven't seen much forward movement going on. What are your plans in work and social life?