I've stopped I promise! I didn't contact her since last week other than D-related things. I didn't even tell her I moved everything out of the apartment!
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers