( You'll be ok, you're doing so well and you're a strong enough character to be able to cope with this You're sticking to sandi's rules well by keeping away from the bars, well done I'd forgotten that one, lol.
I wish I was as convinced as you are TTD. I'm already an emotional wreck again, and the meeting with H isn't for several more hours. I'm sitting at work blinking back tears and trying hard to keep myself busy enough to not have time to think about my sitch. The fact I'm posting on here now should show how busy work is - not very.
As for keeping away from bars, never been a big fan of noisy, crowded bars so that one is an easy rule for me. Although I'm pretty sure a glass of wine or something stronger will be called for when I get back from meeting with H - LOL.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks