Peace I feel your pain as this is what happened to me, although H claims there isn't an OW involved. Hope you get your head around this new sitch soon and yes definitely stop doing his laundry and cooking
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!