Hi JustStunned, thank you for your postings. I think you're right. Not having enough sex is an excuse because I just found out he has OW now. I has been always trusting him so much that I never thought about it even when he asked for divorce at the begining. I thought if I make a change, then everything will be fine. But he always excused that the change has been too late, he is not in love me for so many year. I was being too naive.
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013