Hi Peace. Sorry that you're going through all this upset at the mo frown I would advise you not to confront him about the OW, he may get angry about this. I had an incident recently that you can read about on my thread. If he's hidden the tickets, etc. how do you know that he went away with the OW? If you've been doing some detective work over this then you need to stop it. It will only upset you more and will make your life worse. I'm sorry to be so direct about this, but I've had to delete my H off FB to stop myself from snooping. It's one of Sandi's rules I think.
There's nothing wrong with having a bit of hope that he will come back to you one day, but don't let this hope rule your life. Of course you'll miss him terribly, but if you keep yourself busy then that urgency to see him all the time will fade with time. If he sees that you're getting on with your life, then it might make him sit up and take notice.
As for kicking him out, that is your decision. Roselinda has given you some sound advice over this and well done for following this smile Don't listen to your friends, it's your life not theirs! I've got friends like that and the best way to deal with them is just agree with them and then politely ask them to change the subject. Even if you agree with them, it doesn't mean that you have to take their advice. I've found friends like that not worth bothering about unless you keep away from the H topic smile
Hope this has helped a bit smile Just take what you want from my post as I'm still learning as well smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!