Ambivalent, than you for your excellent posting. I realized I may have done too much house work for him. Right now I am still doing cooking and laundry for him, and most of time I took care of the kids... I should let him share the same responsiblities too if we still live under the same roof as roomates...
BTW, when I talked to him, I really cannot smile :-(


M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013