Originally Posted By: labug
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Nice to hear you guys are trying to reconcile. You have been going through this for a while. Do you think it would be easier if you were not going back & forth and just moved on?
Hey Maritimer thanks for the comment.

I don't know that we're trying to reconcile, I'd rather say testing the waters. We're letting our lives unfold.

There's been no going back and forth so I'm not sure I understand the question. I had gotten to a place where I enjoyed my life, having fun, doing my thing. He had never moved an inch this way until just a month or so ago.

I had a lot of things to learn, and I'm still learning.


I assumed with your timeline with multiple BD and that he canceled a date that you both were trying to work it out.

So glad to hear you found a place where you enjoy life, have fun doing your own thing. Someday I hope to get there!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.