Journaling not obsessing here....Days are getting better and go much longer as time passes to overcome the emotions...Wanted to note also that I have heard from some people the fact my WAW is now going on 2 weeks silence regarding her last email of getting back to me on the matter of filing for divorce speaks volumes. That her silence is an answer. I beginning to wonder also that if indeed she is feeling very guilty as might very well be the case to her leaving and the way she did it, how that might fit into the grand scheme of things. Not obsessing but listening with curiosity what some are saying outside of DB site. Any thoughts from the pro's here? And does anyone have a comparable sitch?