Thank you. Very helpful confirmation. I've gone a couple weeks now from being obsessed with snopping and checking phone records, etc, to ZERO snooping. I feel so much happier and healthy, for ME! I'm proud of myself because I was sooo hooked into it, and it was so harmful to me, to GAL, and to my effort to see if we can save our m. If I hadn't been snooping all this time -- and filling in a lot of blanks about what I "discovered" -- I think we'd be much further along. Yes, CONSISTENCY. Great reminder. (I'm reading DB book now.)
