My Story- Newbie

[confuzed0903]

Had to go to child custody mediation today. I just got my paperwork and walked on out going to my car. He called my name and asked if I would get something from him to take to my child. We chatted just a few minutes and I went to walk away and he said do you have a few minutes ... and I said yes a few. He then said - your hot date can wait. (not sure why he finds it neccesary to make these comments) I was dressed nicely as I am for all court type stuff and anytime I got out now...(thats one change Ive made for myself) But he did ask how i was doing - I said just fine. He keeps reiterating I dont hate you. ??? He wanted to talk about child custody stuff a little and I did discuss a few things but told him we could get into it more in the mediation session since that was what it was for. He said ok I do need to get to work.I said yeah you better and laughed like I didnt have to work... that was good. He asked why I came a different way- he had been behind me??? I just went the quickest way. Its like he has been keeping up on me if I go to spots we used to frequent he asks if I been there and then drops comments about that later in convos with our daughter. Im just still confused and trying hard to "go dark" be mysterious and act "as if" I am doing just fine.