Cindy,
The alien is simply PO'd that he misunderstood, forgot, whatever, and in true alien mode is taking it out on you. Same old, same old. However, you will refuse to be rattled, you will not take it personally, you will feel sorry and compassionate for him and you will validate his feelings of confusion, whatever. His brain is NOT working at full speed, you know that.

Sit tight. Find the humor in it.

A conversation in your head? That you forgot to tell him? Isn't that a movie plot or something?

It will be okay. If he wants to file, let him file...


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.