BTW, the story I told her on the phone early that morning was that we had been on our honeymoon and a gypsy had hit me up for money. I had refused to give her any and she then started saying something in Italian. I told my wife as a joke that she had probably cursed out marriage and that was what went wrong. She had said "You're protected if you're Christian" (she didn't get it was a joke I guess) and I said "I don't know...I'm scared." At that point she said I was pissing her off.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers