Boy oh boy Rose, when it rains it pours. I'm sorry your folks changed their minds. I agree with Portia that you should talk to them. How did your sister get this information to relay to you, yet they did not call you? Strange.
I'm sorry your H seems to be mired in that angry stage again. Why in the world does he feel that HE is entitled to the TV, couches, etc? Don't you have to split up your Marital property 50-50? And isn't the division of marital property something something that needs to be agreed upon in the settlement? Snodderly's idea to take photos of anything he takes or you pack up for him is a good one.
Despite taking his frustration with his dad and job on you (a normal reaction even for people who aren't stressed out by a MLCer!) I think your S18 is doing pretty well at expressing himself. Better to get all that frustration out instead of holding it inside. How is S14 doing lately? He's the quiet one who holds it all in.
That text message session between S18 and your H shows how delusional H is. Do I understand you correctly that, your S told you that during drives for YEARS, your H has told him that he loves you but did not know how long he can stay with you??!! Totally inappropriate.
Hang in there my friend!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17