He's the confused one...

[BRNR]

So, updating...man it has been a while since I have been to these boards.

I guess I don't really have anything new to share. My focus has so been on my children and myself, that there really is no time for the sitch to creep in.

At this stage I kinda laugh about everything revolving around it (is that detachment?). From the little bits I hear of whats going on with h, his life is going down in flames, but he is bound and determine to make his choices work for him.

He has now started to be there for his children less and less. They seem to be coping with a "detached" attitude themselves.

So what is new... I think I am pulling the trigger on my divorce. I have secured some money to handle the legal fees I have incurred for everything and probably will make a move soon.

My reasoning is because H is destroying himself financially, and I don't want to be "Attached" to that anymore than I have to. But, I am still unsure, so no moves on my part other than securing the funds to do so.

Court for custody and support was postponed again by H's (now) attorney. This would be the second time he has had this matter postponed. I find it funny that for someone who wants his freedom, that he just doesn't get this matter over with and suffer the consequences.

Court for the assault was also delayed by H and now my attorney is trying to get the matter resolved through other means. Not sure where it is going, but it is what it is I guess.

So overall, I am good health, my sons are doing well, and ready to go back to school, and on a positive, I am starting to gain weight and have "reduced" smoking, with the intention of quitting by the end of the year. (hey, its a goal right?)

I will admit, that I haven't kept up with anyone's threads, it just seems there is very little time to do that anymore with me GAL. I am still casually dating, spending more time with my friends, and really just letting GO!!!

So all in all, I think I am doing good. Hope all my buddies here are doing as well as they can be under the circumstances.

Have a great day everyone.