Quote: I'm having the D dismissed also, but my H insisted we needed to get one.
H said this to me in September by November he wanted a continuance.
Quote: As for your hubby being crabby, could be something else; leave him alone. If he feels he needs to tell you whats bothering him he will, don't push!
Yeah, I suppose when he's good and ready he'll tell me...either at counseling or on our next date. Actually I'm probably better off not knowing...most of the time it is not something good about me.
Quote: I don't like the fence sitting either! Or the Limbo land!
Yeah, it sucks! I hate the not knowing, the wondering what will happen, trying to figure out his mood, wondering what I'm doing wrong, and will this ever end!!!???? It irks me to say the least !!!
Quote: be his friend and go with the flow
But no here I am being friendly , acting as if and going with the flow . I'm acting like his mood yesterday was no big deal. I acted the same as if he was in a good mood. Called him this a.m. sounding upbeat.
I guess tomorrow I'll find out if he wants to be with the boys and I this weekend.