Wow, our sitches sound a like! I filed a little over a year ago and my H was upset with me! But, he was the one having the A! Go figure!
Quote: But by the same token you are in sorts the enemy. You did the most damaging thing you could have done to him and FILED for a divorce.
Yep! I think that our H's feel that is a bigger betrayal than an A (THANKS to bill clinton!).LMAO
I'm having the D dismissed also, but my H insisted we needed to get one.
As for your hubby being crabby, could be something else; leave him alone. If he feels he needs to tell you whats bothering him he will, don't push!
Believe me, I don't like the fence sitting either! Or the Limbo land! But, giving our H's the space they need is important at this time, be his friend and go with the flow!