Cindy,

Wow, our sitches sound a like! I filed a little over a year ago and my H was upset with me! But, he was the one having the A! Go figure!

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But by the same token you are in sorts the enemy. You did the most damaging thing you could have done to him and FILED for a divorce.





Yep! I think that our H's feel that is a bigger betrayal than an A (THANKS to bill clinton!).LMAO

I'm having the D dismissed also, but my H insisted we needed to get one.

As for your hubby being crabby, could be something else; leave him alone. If he feels he needs to tell you whats bothering him he will, don't push!

Believe me, I don't like the fence sitting either! Or the Limbo land! But, giving our H's the space they need is important at this time, be his friend and go with the flow!

Deb


bom:01/2003
D: 03/14/2006